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Psychological counseling is an activity concept that combines psychology and counseling.

Psychology means 'principles of how the mind works', and counseling means 'illustrating one another'. In other words, psychological counseling is an activity that expresses the principles of the mind by describing each other.

The difference between everyday conversation and counseling conversation lies in the way they describe each other.

To describe is to paint what is.

In everyday conversation, drawing this as it is is very unrealistic. Instead, I try to draw what I want to see, or what I want to show others.

Because it is the relationship principle that works first in everyday conversation. And the principle of relationship is the very opposite of the principle of mind. The reason for these conflicts is because basically the principle of mind takes precedence, and the principle of relationship forces the principle of mind to be controlled.

The relationship principle is actually a replica of the mind principle. In other words, the principle of relationship is created for those who do not know the principle of mind to imitate it. However, he insists that the relationship principle, which is nothing more than a replica, is bigger than the original thought. They say that everything in this world is a relationship, and no thought takes precedence over a relationship.

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The heart is smooth.

So when the relationship principle commits coercive violence to the mind principle, the mind secretly hides behind it. Hide yourself. You wouldn't know it was there.

To describe means to recreate this hidden mind in its original form. It's about dismantling the relationship principle and opening the mind to reveal its existence for what it is.

So, in a counseling conversation, thoughts that we dare not think about in everyday life, emotions that we dare not feel, and meanings that we dare not imagine are revealed.

This means, again, that things are forbidden to think that way, forbidden not to feel that way, and forbidden to imagine such being possible.

Through these counseling conversations, the things we originally had but were rejected as if they didn't exist just exist.

So, the essence of psychological counseling is not only to turn one thought into another good idea, to relieve emotional baggage through catharsis, or to acquire a new identity of relational value, but to restore and This is an ontological activity aimed at the draw.

Existential counseling is a counseling methodology that focuses more on the essential part of this very psychological counseling. It can also be called the prototype of psychological counseling.

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Existential counseling tries to understand the mind as the current way of being expressed by existence, not just as a cognitive schema, emotional response, or volitional act.

The main task of existential counseling is to confirm the direction and possible direction of my existence by understanding how and why the particular way of existence called me is prohibited.

To put it simply, by understanding the current workings of the mind, it was equivalent to obtaining a complete map of my summoned being.

"Why is my heart like this?"

"What's going on here now?"

These two questions are the same question.

Existential counseling provides a direct answer to this question.

It is never ambiguous.

Existential counseling always has a clear answer.

A clear explanation of the way we are is a unique feature of existential counseling.

It's like discovering the fact that an apple falls to the ground with a force called gravity.

Thus, existential counseling is about understanding the laws of existence called me.