`Hello Beautiful People!`

Today I am going to participate in another Steemit engagement Challenge, season #12, Week #4 contest which is organized by Incredible India Community and the theme for this week is about Share your statements about a proverb-"It's good to be bad."

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`Share your statements about a proverb-"It's good to be bad."`

This proverb is very famous and I think there is some reality in it because when you are too good it means people ignore you and do not care about you because you are very soft to handle but sometimes you have to be bad to tell people that you are not a toy people can play with but a human being.

If you are unable to answer someone or most of the time good people cannot say no to anyone and that is because of there softness and their gentle nature but people get advantage of that and many cases they do with you whatever they want and just because your unable to say no because you do not want to hurt them they think that they can do whatever they want without caring of your feelings.

So in my opinion we all have to be strong and sometimes we have to become bad in order to justify our statement and look at our convenience rather than do things for others. In this case becoming bad is a good thing because you now follow your own way of life and not someone else's.

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`Do you think sometimes we need to be a bit harsh if it is for our loved ones' betterment? Justify your point.`

Yes it is obvious and I think it is very important most of the times specially for parents and elder siblings then you to be a bit harsh for their loved ones because they want their betterment and they want them to do better in the future and for that reason most of the time they become Harsh, bad and sometimes treat them hardly but all of what they do is only for the betterment of their loved ones.

There is a famous proverb in my language which says is there anyone who makes you cry or everyone makes you happy every time it means that if someone love you and care for you genuinely they will make you cry because they will tell you the truth and will let you face the reality.

But the one who doesn't love you at all well make you happy and we will tell you think that makes you happy but I am not good for you in the future.

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`Have you ever been bad for others for their betterment? Share if there are any incidents you have.`

There are many cases in which I have to become bad because of others, not because I hate them or something like that but I want to be good for them and to teach them and help them be on the right path. I have to be harsh and bad sometimes.

One of the incidents that I will share is of my sister. Actually I have two older brothers and my sister is younger than me so I always worry about her and most of the time when I want something good for her she thinks that I am her enemy and she thinks I am bad.

One day she was having her exams and she used to use mobile phone in the night time after study I try to tell her that it's not good to watch phone at this hour because whatever you have learn the whole day you will forget everything because after studying you watch mobile phone so your mind will only remember you think you watch at the end.

She used to hate me for this because she thought that I was just refreshing myself for the paper but she always hated me for this. At that time I was bad but I actually wanted her good so I have to become bad for it.

I would like to invite my friends @shohana1 , @aaliarubab and @malikusman1 to participate in the contest.

Thank You So Much For Reading

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@janemorane