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"One whose character is so is his life partner" is a saying that is prevalent in different cultures. According to Islam, the concept of character and partner is somewhat accurate, but not entirely realistic. In Islam the character of a person's spouse can be determined as part of Allah's will and His test. However, it cannot be directly said that as one's character, so will be his life partner. The meaning of this saying is, usually a person finds a life partner similar to him. That is, a kind person typically choose a kind person for their life spouse, and an ill-mannered person typically selects an ill-mannered person for his life mate. A person of integrity or honesty will look for a life mate who shares his or her commitment to following Allah. However, due to life's adversities or trials, they may not always find the same type of life partner. It may be a test from Allah. ![hqdefault.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmezrMPc5uFpu7bhg3sjsyxD3ickhVrk9zE7gZ3NJbck6y/hqdefault.jpg) Image Source by pixabay

The reality of this saying:

Partial truth: This proverb is not completely true, but there is some truth in it. Generally people are attracted to people who have similar thoughts, ideals and values. Therefore, it is normal for a person's character to have some similarities with that of their spouse. Other Factors: Character is not the only factor in choosing a spouse. Family background, social status, educational qualification, financial solvency etc. are also involved. ![hqdefault.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnRwT2e6ACayJcThyACFd37qa8dw9PnYmYQk8upMvyj3/hqdefault.jpg) Image Source by pixabay Personal preference: Every person has his own preference in choosing a life partner. Some people may find people with different personalities attractive. Change: Human character can change over time. Hence, a person may change after marriage due to the influence of his spouse.

Conclusion:

The saying "whose character is like his life partner" is a generalization.A man choosing his life partner is very difficult and there are reasons for that. This is a proverb, this proverb encourages us to think wisely in choosing a life partner and find a man of his choice. But one thing we have to remember is that every person is unique and personal preferences and circumstances should be considered in choosing a life partner.