Good day everyone, I want to specially welcome everyone to the 3rd week of this Steemit engagement challenge. It feels good to write and post in this amazing community (STEEMIT PAKISTAN), special thanks to the admins for bringing up a wonderful topic for us this week again. In this article, I will be discussing and defending these 3 statements below. - YOU WILL STAY HAPPIER IF YOU'RE UNMARRIED - VOTES ARE NOT GUARANTEED - SC01 - MONEY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE ![Copy of Meet Greet Instagram Post - Made with PosterMyWall.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmRVUS6SuqQof9pfoPHft8yoSFLz6BXot2x9UbiNi3PNk5/Copy%20of%20Meet%20%20Greet%20Instagram%20Post%20-%20Made%20with%20PosterMyWall.jpg) IMAGE DESIGNED ON POSTERMYWALL.COM *** ![4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnhuzEizMB8Hm1UxLTcQzCw8zWcCtthdBAQCFX3qeFRX/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg) **

YOU WILL STAY HAPPIER IF YOU'RE UNMARRIED

** ![4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnhuzEizMB8Hm1UxLTcQzCw8zWcCtthdBAQCFX3qeFRX/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg) As we all know marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities especially for the men. When you are still single, you tend to have all the freedom in the world to do whatever you like. You can choose to eat whatever you want, you can visit places you like, you can drink as you want, you can visit places you like or visit your friends, you can always leave home and come back any time you want but you see the moment you are married, all the freedom will disappear like a flash. In marriage, you become like a programmed robot who has no freedom, is limited and being controlled around. You will realise you can't do most of the things you love doing again, your mind and heart will be attached to your family because you wouldn't want to dissapoint them. ![images - 2022-05-10T183001.936.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmUNRmCZyTaYf22Xh9rBzRkupJanh9jU1zr8fp9tBgjdc5/images%20-%202022-05-10T183001.936.jpeg) _{[Image source](https://www.pridesibiya.com/2020/03/10-real-reasons-why-many-married-women.html)} Marriage comes with a lot of responsibilities and besides only few get to marry their soulmate and find happiness. If you check around you will quite agree with me that we now have more break-ups, divorce and domestic violence on the rise, it's now rampant more than never before which shouldn't be. I think a lot of married men if given the chance again won't love to get married because most of them already entered before they realise it's all but a trap. I'm not saying marriage is totally bad but one needs to be careful when making this decision on who to spend his/her rest of life with. Without mincing word, I will say people who are single live a more happier life than the married ones. ![4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnhuzEizMB8Hm1UxLTcQzCw8zWcCtthdBAQCFX3qeFRX/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg) **

VOTES ARE NOT GUARANTEED - SC01

** ![4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnhuzEizMB8Hm1UxLTcQzCw8zWcCtthdBAQCFX3qeFRX/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg) I have come to realise that a lot of people have the misconception that their posts must be voted or curated on the Steemit platform at all times, meanwhile that's a big fallacy, it isn't true. As we all know Steemit blockchain works with the **Proof of Brain** system which means you get rewarded by the measure of how good you are with writing and how you can use your brain to be innovative and strategic. Some people do not write well and some don't write and post within the confines of the rules laid down, all this always goes a long way in determining whether your post or article will be curated or not. So I will implore everyone of us to read the communities and contests rules properly before engaging them. Besides, we have thousands of Steemit users who post everyday so it's practically impossible to vote and curate everyone in a day, it's just totally impossible. So what is required here is patience and hardwork. Keep writing and keep posting, when you do so, your turn will come and you will be rewarded handsomely by the Steemcurators so I will like to remind us again that votes are not always guaranteed ! ![4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnhuzEizMB8Hm1UxLTcQzCw8zWcCtthdBAQCFX3qeFRX/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg) **

MONEY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN LOVE

** ![4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnhuzEizMB8Hm1UxLTcQzCw8zWcCtthdBAQCFX3qeFRX/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg) Whether you like it or not, you can't do without money, infact you reading this article now, there is a 99% probability that you've spent money today so what are we saying in essence, money is very essential and important to our sustainance and survival. Money makes the world tick, as humans we can't do without money. ![images - 2022-05-10T183414.270.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmUeNKiTXhpvucc4bGz4QDd9JQQhfeAG2dZj5n7VVgsd9F/images%20-%202022-05-10T183414.270.jpeg) _{[Image source](https://www.voicesofyouth.org/blog/love-vs-money)} On the other side, many of us can do without love, infact most of us here are probably still single and not married and we are still busy chasing our dreams. It might be hard to accept but the truth is there can be no love without money. Money makes love sweeter hence I can boldly say money is more important than love. Money answereth all things according to what my Bible even told me, when you have money, every other things in life including love will come to you, you can achieve your dream and purpose in life with money but love can't do that. I will end this by saying heart break and deceit accompanies love but value, honour and respect accompanies money. I hope you got something from this. ![4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPnhuzEizMB8Hm1UxLTcQzCw8zWcCtthdBAQCFX3qeFRX/4HFqJv9qRjVeVQzX3gvDHytNF793bg88B7fESPieLQ8dxHdhXUr88NCB9HGATNFmVdaF5DxpUuCCfjLrrKCCXZjgGC9TrDdPTSfCdpnYveHN693qKdM53aev2AqWDWKQ1neibkA1BPMug2CgWxWJeRDqSf1UD2vWiHC.jpeg) **

CONCLUSION