![jordhan.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQZs4j5P2QgD78RCrHypzTR2HiC7rXHcuLpy394hNmf6n/jordhan.jpg) _{Cover Image Created by Adobe Photoshop} One of the first things that parents always want is that their children achieve success and at the same time, they can enjoy good health physically and mentally. However, knowing the way for the project of success to be a reality, sometimes it can seem that it requires a special key or failing that, has a secret that everyone does not know. If we evaluate very well the circumstances of life, we have in front of us the main formula to be able to decipher how we can achieve success and this strategy, is the same that parents can transfer to their children being this the observation, listen carefully and knowledge. If we guide children to apply this triad, they have part of the guaranteed secrecy. At this point keep in mind that, success is not achieved overnight since, it is essential to be very patient, dedicate 100% in our project and trust in what we are doing as well as, in who we are because if we have this attitude, when children observe the behavior that characterizes us, at the time of talking to them how we achieve success they will associate it and immediately make it part of their habits. Now, just as you have to guide children to be successful, in that way you must also explain to them that failure will always be present and when you say present, they will always be with them to shake their hand and help them overcome it. A child who is guided to walk correctly on the path of life, will undoubtedly be a successful adult and for this, I share some keys that allow you to achieve this education. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmeGP2ag7kUoVxPxyGZ2WJeKqb8MRF5Z9whpwwW3ek8ZH3/image.png) _{[Image Source](https://www.schoolguide.co.uk/blog/10-proven-ways-to-help-your-child-do-well-at-school-simple-steps-every-parent-can-try-at-home)} # Teach them communication and social skills --- By nature we know that people are social beings however, this natural ability that we have in some cases is not well prepared due to self-esteem problems therefore, it must be reinforced through practice and taking advantage of the fact that children are excellent imitators, we must give them good examples among these is the understanding of own and external emotions. Similarly, having helpful attitudes because helping someone else fosters the value of solidarity. As I told them at the beginning, when looking for success, the obstacles will not be exempt however, if the children have confidence in them and all the abilities they possess, they will be able to face or resolve the conflict that is presented to them thus demonstrating that they are resilient. # Avoiding pressure on children --- When we pressure someone or we are the ones who receive the pressure, automatically stress and anxiety take over us for that reason, this is not positive for anyone and if we are talking about children, such behavior is more negative for it, although parents have high expectations towards them, it is advisable to avoid pressuring them. Keep in mind that, children have enough potential to exceed all the expectations that parents have, however, so that this situation does not end in frustration for both parties, parents have the task of setting goals that are at the level of their little ones and it is essential to encourage them constantly avoiding pressure at all times or, judge them when they make mistakes. It should be noted that, if parents think that their children can achieve everything they propose and transmit that confidence, they will improve their level of self-esteem and will always be motivated to work on their goals for it, if we educate a safe child, he will not let himself be controlled by some uncomfortable situation. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQma9BMqogU4FLLXe5rFgbLU927dvWPS5fqd2dHzTkDWvkr/image.png) _{[Image Source](https://www.oxfordlearning.com/a-guide-for-parents-on-getting-involved-in-kids-education/)} The first example to follow that children have are their parents therefore, those who have children must constantly monitor their behavior because much of the training that their little ones have, is inspired by what they have achieved. It should be noted that, just as parents have high expectations with their children, they also have high expectations towards their parents from the first moment they begin to reason. When we are educating a child, it is essential to avoid stress because this emotional state will be perceived and if it is a frequent behavior, they will end up adopting a situation that will lead them to have emotional instability and this does not favor them. In the same way, you have to generate an emotional connection with them; that is, to establish emotional and affective bonds with the point that they can feel supported, understood and respected. Finally, valuing the effort and talent of children will feed their self-esteem because they perceive that attitude as a compliment to their work and feel valued or taken into account. If we cultivate the child's mind with the intention that we must always evolve, with the passage of time they will begin to design their own life projects for the future. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmVpe9t1dH8u81xoeLfgFYKr2mhQBhBWKG5PQrLvUavcLC/image.png) _{[Image Source](https://www.indiatoday.in/education-today/featurephilia/story/redefining-the-measures-of-success-for-children-1612111-2019-10-23)} ***Thanks for reading***