Hi Everyone!!! I hope you're all doing well and feeling great. Today, I’d like to dive into a topic that many of us can relate to being an "INTROVERT" so i started this with my self i lived in Pakistan . i lived in a joint family system since my childhood to teeange From birth to my teenage years, Living in a joint family meant I was always surrounded by kids my age my cousins. We played together, fought together, had night sleepovers, and celebrated Eid and Ramadan together undoubtly it was the most memorable days of my life ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmacq7tKtEjUdwPhk351AsKyXo4T41bnW61mJp9V76oxX3/image.png) [Ramzan And Festivals With Family] Despite growing up in a joint family, I was always the most introverted kid among us. I rarely opened up in front of anyone. I never really noticed it back then, but now I realize I was often the odd one out during family gatherings with my cousins.

Problems I Faced

I’m not very good at expressing myself. I usually keep my thoughts and feelings to myself and don’t talk about my problems with others. Even though I’m good at listening to people, I find it hard to do the same when it comes to my own issues. When something upsets or bothers me, I tend to keep it to myself instead of talking it out. I often choose to handle problems on my own rather than discussing them with others. I never react to things impulsively everyone considers me a very mature person. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmNPfHNVE7PQ8HEFkDN5qBMuE7JrecDX668oeDHqExhffr/image.png)

How I Manage Them

To manage this, I started taking my problems into my own hands. For things that bother me, I either leave them to Allah or try to solve them myself. I’ve developed a strong balance over my emotions and learned to handle them effectively. My friends often say I seem like a different person around different people. This is because Throughout the years, I have learned how to adapt and handle problems on my own without showing them to others. . One positive outcome of being an introvert is that it has made me a good decision-maker for myself. If something bothers me a lot, I always go to the rooftop alone to find peace. I sit there to think about solutions or simply to calm my mind and relieve stress. to clear my blurry mind and messy thoughts ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmUb7XTzjt4EwvZPJtYtYTQx9EVUQzCfqNyjyJdL36JK7U/image.png)

Childhood Friendships

"You bloom differently with different people," For me, it was with my childhood school friends. during my tough times, they were a great support. thy stand with me in my thick and thins .I believe there's always an extroverted side in everyone that emerges around certain individuals. You need someone who can bring out the best version of you, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be a family member. two of my childhood friends , They always managed to bring out my side, Our bond has grown stronger over the years because we shared the same school, section, college, coaching, and now, we're in the same university. Now Whenever something bothers me and I’m unsure how to handle it, I turn to my friends. They always come up with silly but effective solutions. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmcbdyR15LUVLhyRzw1i2QFyDk39Sbap1rnWmPH7npKTTw/image.png)