ٱلسَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ ٱللَّٰهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ

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![1000002677.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmUm1MQXirku8vJXHCrhfCx8HEPH6pgiJbFWQd61HP7Xfp/1000002677.jpg)[Cover Photo](https://www.freepik.com/free-vector/custody-battle-divorce-tug-war-child-division_28845081.htm#fromView=keyword&page=1&position=30&uuid=112a5ff6-9e22-49b2-9bb9-28f79dea5651&query=Argument) > the mixed reactions of parents, is it only the mother's responsibility to educate the child? The father has no responsibility, and if the fathers avoid responsibility in this regard, So what kind of mentality can be developed towards those children? *** When a couple thinks about becoming parents or planning for their child, the responsibility of that child does not merely mean giving birth, but encompasses everything related to the child's upbringing and thinking about their future. Education, everything has to be borne by both the mother and the father. If any father feels he is incapable of raising his child or cannot fulfill his responsibilities towards the child completely, then that man should never plan for a child. In our country, in most cases, mothers take care of the house while fathers earn outside; both have their responsibilities. However, this does not mean that the responsibility of educating the child lies solely with the mother, as the father also has a role to play. Children learn from the family, acquiring their first language from their mother and behavioral education from their father. However, if a father tries to evade these responsibilities, it negatively impacts the children. For example, children may come to think that their father does nothing for them, that he is not important, and they become more dependent on their mother. In the future, if they face any problems, they may blame their father ![1000002674.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmZpLDxapZKbtF2bf1wkoh9x9bHz7tQoBH1zBV7S1zvaYz/1000002674.jpg) _{[Both mother and father have the responsibility to raise their child.](https://pixabay.com/photos/family-love-outdoors-care-together-6748952/)} A few days ago, I saw an old man abandoned in a hospital. When I asked him why he had been left like this and whether he had any family, the man said that his children were not to blame. When he was young, he had not taken responsibility for his children but rather remarried elsewhere after leaving their mother alone with the small children. Therefore, when he returned to his previous children in old age, they could not forgive him, and that is why they also left him alone. > Where the responsibility of the family's success lies with the father and the father has to earn an income to handle all the details of the family, due to which the father cannot give enough time to the family and his child, is it right? Or if the father cannot take the responsibility of his child's education while earning money, is it right? What do you mean by that? *** In most cases, the father takes on the responsibility of the family and serves as the earning source, while the mother stays at home to take care of everything for the family. In some cases, fathers might not be able to balance their time for earning, but this does not mean that the family will create a long distance with the children for earning purposes. Life is filled with work and busyness, and there will be ups and downs and adversities in life. However, it is important to maintain everything and prioritize relationships, keeping the family happy, taking good care of them, and having good thoughts about the family members. ![1000002675.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmZruevsM3cK4U6dhaWDXR8jruFybbZcAtCVa8Gbks9NFQ/1000002675.jpg) _{[The joint plan of the parents regarding the future of their children.](https://www.freepik.com/free-vector/parent-daughter-visiting-mental-health-professional_40792193.htm#fromView=search&page=1&position=2&uuid=19a936c8-feec-43a3-b2eb-6c059be03c19&query=Joint+advice+from+mother+and+father)} Thinking about the future of children is the responsibility of every parent. The future of children depends on the joint efforts of the parents. Children learn behavioral lessons from their fathers and receive primary education from their mothers. Both father and mother must be caring and responsible towards their children; even if time is short, they should spend whatever time they have with the family and children. It is not like they cannot take responsibility; the father earning for the children is also a responsibility, and the mother cooking for the children is also a responsibility. When a father earns while thinking about his children's future, it is also his responsibility towards them. > What is the most important thing in a child's education? Both parents should provide them with good education and study on time. In this case, can the child's education and progress improve? Or if the father does not pay attention to education, can the child achieve much more success in education only through the mother's education? *** From the moment a child is born, they learn from both their parents, gaining various types of education, whether it is academic education, family education, or religious education. The child starts to follow the people in their family from a young age, trying to imitate what they do, accepting their parents as role models. If the family members exhibit aggressive behavior, the children start to learn that aggressive behavior. ![1000002676.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmfJ1Pa1KCgWZmfGZLUVcXYLzwzwLgWRDJKdhCBvswdo3k/1000002676.jpg) _{[Parents should educate their children in a timely manner.](https://www.freepik.com/free-photo/parents-daughter-coloring-together_3442263.htm#fromView=search&page=1&position=2&uuid=c1045b8b-23c5-4164-bfab-d0da7b1885d7&query=Educating+the+child+parents)} If the family behaves well, the children begin to learn those good behaviors. To educate a child well, it is necessary for parents to provide proper education on time, teach good manners, and teach basic skills. If the father does not pay attention to education within the family, the children may lose interest in learning, so it is essential for the father to encourage the children in their studies. It is true that children can achieve success in studies solely through the mother's efforts, but there will inevitably be some negative impact in certain areas. *** In this competition, I am inviting my friends, they are. @chant @suboohi @karianaporras ***

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