Assalam-o-Alaikum!

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How are you friends ? Hope you will be healthy happy and well . I am also fit and healthy.Today i want to take participate in contest **SLC-S24/W2 - Powerful Debate | Love vs Capability"** organized by @Vishwara.

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@Vishwara You did a great job of explaining both views. In addition, I am a mother and a professional. I make every effort to devote my time to my daughter. I want her to feel protected, content, and at ease in every way. I want to encourage her to pursue her goals and give her the confidence boost she needs. I am providing her with happiness, stability, and love. I think a mother's role is to ensure that her child feels strong, loved, and supported, not merely to be there all the time. # I decided on topic two for that reason. In my opinion a mother is also acting morally when she strives for her child's better future. Although managing everything together is difficult, mothers continue to strive daily with love and strength for the happiness of our children. Being a working woman and a mother makes me proud.

Create the debate of your thoughts showing the weight of two worlds, the split of mother's mind. Should mothers be judged for pursuing their careers or dreams?

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After completing her evening office work a mother with a troubled heart came home. Her young boy was battling sleep and waiting to see her when she discovered him. She was devastated. On the one hand, she was a strong lady who pursued her childhood ambition of a profession. Conversely, she was everything to her kid who need her attention and warmth. She asked herself often Am I doing okay? Do I have to give up my dreams for him? Silently, guilt remained within her. # Mothers who put in a lot of labor outside the home are frequently subjected to harsh judgment. It is sometimes forgotten that mothers don't pursue their goals out of self-interest. They also do it for the betterment of their kids futures. A mother thoughts are always divided between duty and love. She is present in every meal served every story told, and every exhausted embrace she is not missing because she doesn't care. Mothers who are juggling two challenging environments at once need our respect rather than blame.

Is a mother who focuses on her work life and neglects the responsibility of her children, can she still be called a "perfect mom"? "They said a good mother never puts herself first but she wondered who would tell her daughter that her dreams mattered too?

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It is said that a good mother never prioritizes herself. After completing household duties and dropping her children off at school, a mother gets up early and rushes to work. However, she occasionally forgets to pack her child's lunch or misses a school meeting in the haste of advancing her job. People begin to criticize her and accuse her of being reckless. They overlook the fact that she is not fleeing parenting. She is making every effort to manage two demanding worlds at once. Despite having a lot on her plate, she still has a deep affection for her kids. # Am I a good mom? the mother often asks herself when sitting quietly. She learns from society that the ideal mother is always available and at home. But she understands in her heart that dreams are important as well. She aspires to demonstrate to her daughter that a woman can be both devoted and hardworking. She doesn't want her kids to believe that the only option is sacrifice. She wants children to understand that it takes love to strike a balance between family and dreams. # It's OK for a mother to pursue her goals. She instills patience, bravery, and strength in her children. She demonstrates that making one decision and losing the other is not always the only option in life. It's important to attempt, even if it's difficult. Being perfect implies developing while holding love in your heart not giving up who you are entirely. Even though a mother may not be perfect by society's standards she is the best to her children because she exemplifies the true meaning of hard effort and hope.

What defines a good mother? A mother who commits all her life to her children, raising them, or a mother who works day and night to build a better future for her children while holding on to her dreams?

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How does one become a good mother? A good mother according to some is one who remains at home takes care of the house, cooks, and spends all of her time with her kids. She makes her family her entire universe and forgets about her own aspirations. Her reward is every smile on her child's face. When her kids grow up to be well-mannered and kind-hearted, she is proud. Because she feels that love is demonstrated by giving and remaining close, she is content to sacrifice her needs in order to live her life around her house. # However there are other women that put in endless hours to give their kids a better life. They depart early from home, return exhausted but with optimism in their hearts. They have aspirations for their children's future as much as for themselves. They grow stronger and more self assured but they miss some times. They want their kids to understand the importance of working hard being self reliant and pursuing their goals. They simply express their love in a different way; it is not less. # One cannot judge a good mother based on where she spends her time. Her heart beats for her kids whether she works outside or stays at home. Love can manifest itself in a variety of ways, such as late night embraces after work or packed lunchboxes. A good mother does her best whether that means sticking close or creating a better future. A mother love is ultimately determined by the unending care she gives her child every single day not by the amount of time or work she completes.

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