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(Edited with iMarkup app) Hello fellow Steemians, hope you're enjoying Steemit? I am happy to participate in this amazing contest organised by @si-official in this wonderful community #SteemInspiration **INTRODUCTION** Life is a mystery. Life is full of surprises. Today the tides of times turns to your favour, the next moment, to your disappointment 😞. Life gives us both limes and lemon. Ups and downs are constant ingredients of life. Sometimes we feel on top of the world, sometimes, as if the whole world is upon us. There are times we might be tempted to think life is not fair. We often say, "This life no balance" (Nigerian parlance). I am here to share my experiences of how life dealt with me. How circumstances of life knocked me off balance and left me bereft of courage and motivation to carry-on with life. **BAD EXPERIENCE: A BROKEN HEART** https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmWdTLpEPbswpVG4NrYjjSg8qG1zhaXs2qZu9TzZQSVFLr/image-20160411-21959-ps6nll.jpg ^Source

The year 2020 has gone down to history books of millions of people around the world because of the novel Covid-19 pandemic and its associated socioeconomic impacts. But while the world was languishing because of the impacts of the Covid-19 pandemic, I was languishing for a broken fragile heart. My first relationship ever has come to a dead end. A-28-month relationship has come to a halt. Leaving my heart shattered, smashed, broken and disfigured. I often bragged, my heart cannot be broken until I came face to face with reality. On 25th June 2020, I called my girlfriend and after our usual talk, no quarrel no argument, she told me that the relationship is over. I couldn't believe it but the tune of her voice and the look on her face were affirmative. I thought she was joking so I gave her some time. After 2 days she still reaffirmed her stand. It was then that my eyes cleared. I went ahead to do small research about her sudden change of behaviour and found out that she has a **Sugar Daddy.** She was cheating on me for a long time without my knowing. It was such a terrible experience to know my girlfriend was cheating on me. _I felt as if the whole world was crashing upon me. I lost businesses due to the pandemic and now my first girlfriend has left me. All within a short space of time!_ Several people advised me to find someone else to replace her...that this will help in healing my broken heart quickly. But I never found one until April this year. My new girlfriend has tailored my broken heart, cemented the cracks within and gave me a reason to love again 💕. Giving relationships a second chance has really helped me in overcoming the heartbreak. ![32FTXiZsHoAW6noHJDhrg3W8ZKHVFSsLYM859aTDCF8iErHTv7dTZYQDHpnSt4io4LiuumqaFRK2gANDVA684UqvL4hfCvLEEV6beWCvAkES3vEbEPUpGaaQUsGAzAsoSapnqKv5y7ZbeD2N.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmWB6mE7LcbNtYi6hrzoSTi6NLoCjDyC63r6CMcX4JL1Kb/32FTXiZsHoAW6noHJDhrg3W8ZKHVFSsLYM859aTDCF8iErHTv7dTZYQDHpnSt4io4LiuumqaFRK2gANDVA684UqvL4hfCvLEEV6beWCvAkES3vEbEPUpGaaQUsGAzAsoSapnqKv5y7ZbeD2N.jpeg) **CONCLUSION** I have found a tailor who tailored my broken heart.. My new love 💘 is amazing. Her name is **Shania** Ever since I knew her, she has always been very nice and supportive of me. **LESSONS LEARNED** My experience has taught me that heartbreak 💔 is a reality. I used to think that no one and nothing can break my heart. But alas! When I broke up with my girlfriend, the pain was beyond measure. I also learnt never to trust someone completely. Trust is a scarce commodity in relationships. I'll take good care of my current girlfriend so that nobody will snatch her away from me. I won't repeat my past mistake again. _This is just a briefing of one of my bad experiences in life._ Thanks for reading through my post. Hope you liked it? ![32FTXiZsHoAW6noHJDhrg3W8ZKHVFSsLYM859aTDCF8iErHTv7dTZYQDHpnSt4io4LiuumqaFRK2gANDVA684UqvL4hfCvLEEV6beWCvAkES3vEbEPUpGaaQUsGAzAsoSapnqKv5y7ZbeD2N.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmWB6mE7LcbNtYi6hrzoSTi6NLoCjDyC63r6CMcX4JL1Kb/32FTXiZsHoAW6noHJDhrg3W8ZKHVFSsLYM859aTDCF8iErHTv7dTZYQDHpnSt4io4LiuumqaFRK2gANDVA684UqvL4hfCvLEEV6beWCvAkES3vEbEPUpGaaQUsGAzAsoSapnqKv5y7ZbeD2N.jpeg) I invite my friend @hellgda to participate in this contest and also to subscribe to **Steem Inspiration** community **_Best regards; @jaspichman125_**