Hello Steemian friends, how are you all? Hope everyone is well by God's grace. I am also well by the grace of Allah. I am starting today's writing with greetings and love to everyone.

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Friends respect is something that you cannot force from someone. You have to earn it on your own merit. Do you want to be respected by everyone? So first of all make your personality strong. It doesn't matter whether you are beautiful or ugly, but only your personality can make you respected by all. ![1277751_10151856713764662_1558333977_o.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQAiWG2VoYdEUD6xgeBkY1EDrkwpBU7tqgwNWSJZLH8Hh/1277751_10151856713764662_1558333977_o.jpg) Image Source Because someone left you alone, you selfishly leave your family, forget everything and ruin your life? A man who can dump you for the slightest reason never thought about you. And why should you waste your precious time on such people. Now get up, think of yourself to turn around. Work hard to reach your goals. Those who saw your bad times and left you alone, one day they will understand their own stupidity. Never make yourself suffer for those who do not wish you well. You are worth so much more, and you need to keep your worth to yourself. Never value someone more than you need, otherwise you will become worthless to them yourself. When you are in a bad situation and you are worried about everything, and you are thinking that you are the root of all the problems. You may also be thinking that everything would have been fine without you. But unfortunately you don't realize that you are completely wrong. Life's problems only grow when you are frustrated without solving them. ![1277751_10151856713764662_1558333977_o.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPdb7DazwiN9Gt3s9wZ7ifSrScJ6V9JaA29kkasRPCfky/1277751_10151856713764662_1558333977_o.jpg) Image Source Learn to be patient, learn to fight in all situations. Let go of all the bad things and learn to move forward. You alone can never change everything, so change yourself first and you will see everything changed. Never dwell on the past, it will only increase your pain. Learn from the mistakes of the past and move forward, you will see that your future is getting better. Forgive those who will think bad of you, those who will talk bad about you, thinking they are mentally ill. If you want peace of mind, accept everything and move forward, and that is the act of a brave man. It is only possible for you to do everything, when you are brave. Brave people work hard. They make errors and fix them, but they never lose up. If you lack guts in your life, you will be unable to do anything in it. Problems in your life are not obstacles in your path but they are vehicles for your journey. The problems that come in your life will show you how to take the road ahead. The problems that come into your life will show you who is worthy of your love, and who is not. Yes, love requires merit. Just as you can go to heaven only if you get the love of Allah and to go to heaven you have to be worthy, so you have to be worthy in every aspect of life. Love requires merit. Only the problems that come in your life will show you who is worthy of your love. ![1277751_10151856713764662_1558333977_o.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmcR2NHSBMAk8T1GkMsAihf6E9bYRHPthTAoMMQti4PzeB/1277751_10151856713764662_1558333977_o.jpg) Image Source Opportunity never comes, it has to be made. And creating this opportunity is the beginning of your success. Never be proud of yourself in life. Remember, when a stone falls into water, it sinks due to its own weight. So you will arrange your own life according to yourself, not according to others, because life is yours, not someone else's. Acquiring knowledge is not enough, you must apply the acquired knowledge properly. It is not correct to call someone a wise man only by acquiring knowledge, because after acquiring knowledge, he can be called a wise man only if he can apply it properly. Similarly, it is not enough to sit and dream big, you have to make proper efforts to fulfill that dream. If you want to be successful in life, never make success the goal. Keep doing what you love, success will come to you. Keep in mind that happiness is not something you create, it is born from your workplace. So I will say to everyone, if you want to be happy, try to be patient, if you want to be happy, work hard, and the most important thing is that you trust in God Almighty, and God will never let you down.