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### What Is FOMO? FOMO stands for **Fear of Missing Out**. It’s that anxious feeling you get when you think others are having more fun, living better lives, or doing something amazing—while you're not. I’ve felt it too, especially when scrolling through Instagram or seeing friends post about parties, vacations, or achievements. Suddenly, my own life feels boring or not enough. That’s FOMO in action. ### How Social Media Triggers FOMO Social media shows the **highlights** of people’s lives—not the full picture. We don’t often see their struggles, bad days, or quiet moments. But when I see someone posting about success, travel, or fun nights out, my brain starts to compare. And comparison can lead to thoughts like: * “Why am I not doing that?” * “Am I falling behind?” * “What’s wrong with my life?” This constant comparison can make us feel sad, lonely, or even like failures, even if we’re doing just fine. ### Why FOMO Affects the Brain FOMO is not just emotional—it’s psychological. Our brains are wired to seek connection and acceptance. Social media tricks our brain into thinking we're being left out of the group, and that feels like a threat. When I feel FOMO, I often get restless or moody. That’s because my brain thinks I’m missing something important for my happiness or survival—even if it's just a party I wasn’t invited to. ### The Trap of Endless Scrolling Have you ever checked your phone just for a minute and ended up scrolling for an hour? I have. Social media is built to keep us hooked. The more we scroll, the more we see what others are doing, and the deeper the FOMO gets. It becomes a cycle: 1. Open the app 2. See something exciting 3. Feel left out 4. Keep scrolling to feel better 5. Feel worse instead ### Signs That FOMO Is Affecting You If you relate to any of these, you may be dealing with FOMO: * You feel anxious or sad after using social media * You compare your life to others often * You say “yes” to things just so you don’t miss out * You feel like everyone else is doing better than you I realized I was dealing with FOMO when I couldn’t go a day without checking social media. It was controlling my emotions more than I wanted to admit. ### How I Started Managing My FOMO I knew I needed to make a change. Here’s what helped me: * **Limit screen time:** I set time limits on social media apps. It made a big difference. * **Take social media breaks:** Even a 1-day break can refresh your mind. * **Practice gratitude:** I started writing down 3 things I’m thankful for every night. It helped me focus on my life, not someone else’s. * **Talk about it:** When I shared how I was feeling with a friend, I found out they felt the same way. That made me feel less alone. ### Final Thoughts FOMO is something many of us feel, especially in a world where everyone seems to be living their “best life” online. But most of what we see is not real—just filtered moments. When I started focusing on *my* life, and not everyone else’s, I began to feel happier, more present, and more content. Don’t let fear of missing out steal the joy of what you already have.

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