Greetings dear friends my name is @isma-amir and today i want to tell you about how it is to be a Pakistani house wife.

Morning routine as a house wife sneak peek

So after waking up aat 3:45 AM i do my prayer and thank Allah for the things he gave me. about 5:AM i directly went to kitchen and start preparing the breakfast for my father and mother in law. we are total 15 members of family. so hope you guys will understand how it is to live with this much number of people. my husband his four other brothers , and his parents. so let me tell you the real life experience of this lovely roller coaster of chores. :P

Everyday chores in the morning

Then i start preparing meals for everyone else in the house for lunch. I start doing it in the morning as most of my family members like to eat vegetables at lunch because it involves lots of cutting of vegetables. Today i am making Qeema bhindi (meat ball and lady finger) curry. My husband is also very religious man and also take care of his health as well. He also gets up early in the morning and after morning prayers he go for a run at the bridge which is called Kalabagh railway bridge. it is a mesmerising location and a soul full view. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPk6g9SJEEYMqPEpoRKkgYLUgt4c7PicHHEW3AUcnv5GR/image.png) LINK when he came back from home i gave him a glass of warm goat milk. which has many benefits to health. Then i went upstairs and took some pictures for you guys of the lovely morning in my town which is surrounded mountains of salt and soil. ![WhatsApp Image 2022-05-29 at 7.07.56 AM.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmSSEJytV58wzf1nyV9iADx934z1AZyEh66BkFxAnGuEGW/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-05-29%20at%207.07.56%20AM.jpeg) After some time round about 6:30AM i come to the kitchen and prepare breakfast for my other family members(males). Because here we serve food to the males of our family first then me and my other 3 sister in laws have the meal after. after serving to my husband and his other brothers i prepare my break fast. ![WhatsApp Image 2022-05-29 at 6.47.37 AM.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmeXDemgELEzW5d1eQXGF8pNoaLbzXSMprvg7bECtC4tqm/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-05-29%20at%206.47.37%20AM.jpeg) We got traditional tea , chickpees , paratha, home made curd and Halwa puri. let me tell you one more thing Halwa puri is the most famouse thing about my town you can google it:P. here is the link you can see by yourself LINK

lunch preparations

The Qeema Bhindi i make is a curry based meal which is a whole new flavour for everyone because i add meat balls with lots of spices and vegetables then add my nicely sliced Bhindi in that curry to steem for 20 to 30 minutes to absorb the taste of meat and spices. its still on steem but have a look at this colourful and mouth watering curry. i don't like to add water in my vegetables so i add lots of oil to cook the meals. ![WhatsApp Image 2022-05-29 at 6.27.08 AM.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQ9tDnX3nkbQf4iAZSRMUuSoisEJ8dTba3KaRprLA4jmZ/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-05-29%20at%206.27.08%20AM.jpeg) I cut the salad the way my in laws like and wrap it to store for the lunch.I then make curd and let it sit for 5 to 6 hours to get ready i like to add ilaichi (green cardamom) in my curd which make it rich in taste. ![WhatsApp Image 2022-05-29 at 7.22.25 AM.jpeg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmQwjY8sx7PUspcbdJ7nW8ka4w8ZaNadbjB46GrcgAtGVg/WhatsApp%20Image%202022-05-29%20at%207.22.25%20AM.jpeg)

This is not a choice its a rule for most of the Pakistani house wives

i like to be a house wife i enjoy doing chores of the house but not all the time. but now its an obligation which i have to follow to make my marriage run and to make my parents proud by people saying that their daughter is living in his husband house happily. its not about we love to start our day like this some time we need a break too. but its quite impossible in this structure. ![image.png](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmULPvpxv9uEoca2NTKhwuocoqGC3zxtd1iDBgPgVWtV6u/image.png) LINK For me my husband is that much supported he allows me to use laptop and internet this is the privilege i get as a he loves me so much. For even this he faces lots of criticism. now a days where society is evolving day by day in rural areas or back ward areas like ours faces these problems.

interaction with my other #steemwomensclub members

. What do you guys thing about my life style? . Do you want a combine family or separate family structure ? . So this is my routine of the morning as a house wife tell me yours link to my achievement 1 LINK Cc: @ngoenyi @ubongudofot @patjewell