Not having a clue as to this #introduceyourself posting stuff, figured I would go ahead and post my BDSM sub worksheet for those into that sort of thing. At least until I come up with a better #introduceyourself post.

So, while full of vodka and without further ado:

SUB BDSM CHECKLIST

The checklist below is a way for your scene partner to get to know you better. Not all items below are necessarily things that your scene partner gets into, or would be a requirement on your part.

For each item, you need to provide two answers:

1.For experience, write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
2.For willingness, indicate for each item how you feel about DOING that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

•"?" means you don't understand what the item is attempting to describe.
•NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).
•0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would permit your scene partner to do it if it He really wanted it (sometimes called a "soft limit").
•1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it was asked of you.
•2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.
•3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.
•4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.
•5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your scene partner to know in the margin to the right. For example, under "uniforms" you might have a different fetish for military versus police.

Activity	Experience (yes/no)	Willingness (NO or 0-5)	Notes
Abrasion	?
Anal sex (see "fucking butt")	yes	4	Versatile so long as taking Cialis. Bareback preferred.
Animal roles (puppy, pony, etc.)	yes	4	I'm a leather dog type of puppy.
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders)	yes	3
Auctioned for charity	no	4
Ball stretchers /ball stretching	yes	3	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Ball torture	yes	4	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Bathroom use control	yes	1
Beating (soft)	yes	4
Beating (hard)	yes	4	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Being bitten	yes	3	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Bestiality	yes	4	Medium/large canines. No other critters. I don't top dogs. I'm a dog's bitch. I'm not a fistee so fist sized and larger knots scare me. Horses are an interest, but not as a bitch. I lost my anal virginity to a dog so they have a special place for me.
Blindfolds	yes	4
Blowjobs (see "Sucking dick")	yes	3
Body worship	no	1
Bondage (light)	yes	4
Bondage (heavy)	yes	3
Bondage (while sleeping)	yes	3
Bondage (multi-day)	yes	1
Bondage (public, under clothing)	no	1
Boot worship	no	1
Branding	no	no
Breath control	yes	3
Buttplugs (small)	yes	3
Buttplugs (large)	yes	3
Buttplug (public, clothed)	yes	1
Cages (locked inside of)	yes	3
Caning	yes	2
Castration fantasy	no	no
Catheterization	no	1
Cattle prod	no	2
Cells (locked inside of)	yes	3
Chains	yes	3
Chastity	yes	0
Chastity belts	no	0
Chauffeuring	?
Choking	yes	3
Chores (domestic service)	yes	2
Clothespins	yes	3
Clothing restrictions (having clothes chosen for you)	yes	1
Cock rings/straps	yes	3
Cock torture	yes	3
Cock worship	no	1
Collars (worn in private)	yes	3
Collars (worn in public)	yes	4
Cowboys	no	3
Cuttings	no	1
Dildos	yes	3
Domestic service	yes	2
Electricity (TENS-based)	yes	3
Electricity (violet wand)	yes	3
Enemas (for cleansing)	yes	3
Enemas (retention/punishment)	no	no
Examinations (physical)	no	2
Exercise (forced/required)	yes	2
Exhibitionism (friends)	yes	3
Exhibitionism (strangers)	yes	3
Eye contact restrictions	yes	3
Fire play	no	2
Fisting	yes	3	Novice FF top. Never been FF bottom.
Flat-top or other haircuts (specify)	yes	1	Master used to do mohawks, etc.
Flogging	yes	3
Following orders	yes	3
Food (having it chosen for you)	yes	1	Have dietary restrictions.
Foot worship	no	1
Forced masturbation	yes	3
Forced nudity (private)	yes	4
Forced nudity (around others)	yes	4
Forced servitude	yes	3
Fucking butt (fucking)	yes	3	Bareback preferred. Like to breed.
Fucking butt (getting fucked)	yes	3	Bareback preferred. Have issues with condoms (hurt) and certain lubes (burning). Like to be bred.
Gags (cloth)	yes	3
Gags (horse-style mouth bit)	yes	3
Gags (inflatable)	no	2
Gags (phallic)	yes	3
Gags (rubber)	yes	3
Gags (tape)	yes	3
Gas masks	yes	3
Gates of Hell	?
Given away to another Top (temporarily)	yes	3
Given away to another Top (permanently)	no	1
Glove play (crotch)	yes	3
Glove play (mouth)	yes	3
Golden showers (see water sports)	yes	3
Group scenes (play parties)	yes	4
Hand jobs (giving)	yes	3
Hand jobs (receiving)	yes	3	Depends on style of giver.
Handcuffs (leather)	yes	3
Handcuffs (metal)	yes	2
Harnesses (leather)	yes	3
Harnesses (rope)	yes	3
Hoods	yes	4	I'm a leather dog who prefers playing in pup hood.
Housework (doing)	yes	2
Humiliation (private)	yes	1
Humiliation (public)	yes	1
Ice cubes	yes	3
Immobilization	yes	3
Initiation rites	no	3
Interrogations	yes	3
Kidnapping	no	3
Kneeling	yes	2	Not as young as I used to be
Knife play	no	1
Latex clothing	no	2
Leather clothing	yes	3
Leather restraints	yes	3
Manacles & irons	yes	3
Marks / bruises (temporary / just for a few hours)	yes	2
Marks / bruises (that might last more than a few hours)	yes	1
Massage (giving)	yes	2
Massage (receiving)	yes	2
Medical scenes	no	2
Military scenes (Army, Air Force, Navy, Marines) (specify)	no	2
Modeling for erotic photos	yes	3
Motorcycles	yes	3
Mummification	no	2
Nipple clamps	yes	3
Nipple rings (piercings)	yes	no	Have two. No additonal ones allowed
Nipple play/"torture"	yes	3	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Nipple weights	no	2	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Outdoor scenes	yes	3
Outdoor sex	yes	3
Pain (mild)	yes	3	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Pain (severe)	yes	3	If built up to it gradually. Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Phone sex	no	no
Piercing (temporary)	no	no
Piercing (permanent)	no	no	Both nipples are pierced.
Prison scenes	no	2
Punishment scene	no	2
Rape fantasy	no	3
Rape (gang-style) fantasy	no	3
Religious scenes	no	1
Restrictive rules on behavior	yes	2
Riding crops	yes	3
Rimming (oral/anal contact)	yes	1
Rituals	?
Rubber (neoprene) clothing -- see also latex	no	2
Saline injections in balls	no	1
Scarification	no	no
Scat (brown showers)	no	no
Scent worship (man musk & man smell in armpits for example)	yes	1
Scratching - getting	no	2
Sensory deprivation	yes	2
Service / serving	yes	2
Serving as art	no	0
Serving as a housekeeper	yes	2
Serving as a waiter	yes	2
Serving other Tops (supervised)	yes	3
Serving other Tops (unsupervised)	yes	3
Sex	yes	4
Sexual deprivation / chastity (short term)	yes	0
Sexual deprivation / chastity (long term)	yes	no
Shaving (body hair)	yes	2
Shaving (head hair)	yes	1
Skinny-dipping	yes	3
Sleep deprivation	yes	0
Sleepsacks	yes	1
Sounds (metal urethral rods)	no	1
Spandex clothing	no	1
Spanking	yes	3	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Spanking (over-the-knee)	yes	3	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Speech restrictions (when, what)	yes	2
Speculums (anal)	no	1
Spitting	yes	0
Spreader bars	yes	2
Standing in corner	yes	1
Stocks	yes	1
Straight jackets	no	1
Strapping (full body beating)	no	2	Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Sucking dick (blowing)	yes	3	I occasionally have issues with fullfilling this role. (Childhood experiences).
Sucking dick (getting blown)	yes	2	Any sensation of teeth causes a lot of discomfort.
Suspension (upright)	no	2
Suspension (horizontal)	no	2
Suspension (inverted)	no	2
Swallowing cum If yes, describe circumstance, frequency, and current preference.	yes	3	As a result of blowjobs or off of immediately after a jack off. Never done spunk from a bowl, etc.
Swallowing urine (see "water sports")	yes	2	Much prefer it on me, especially a hot stream hitting the head of my cock
Tattooing	yes	no	No additional tats allowed
Teasing	no	1
Thumbcuffs (metal)	yes	1	meh...
Tickling	no	2
Tit clamps (see nipples)	yes	2	clothespins are ok, some clamps, depends on how tight, my tits don't connect with my cock. Best if "edged" and kept hard during the experience.
Tongue bath / tongue worship	no	0
Trucks / sleeper cabs	no	2
Uniforms (specify)	yes	2	scene leather, motorcycle leather
Verbal humiliation	yes	0
Violet wand (electrical device)	yes	2
Voyeurism (watching others)	yes	2	I want to get involved after watching a short bit
Video (watching others)	yes	2
Video (recordings of you)	yes	3	When in "pup space", love getting filmed. When in "slave space", don't care about getting filmed.
Water sports (external)	yes	3	Love getting it onto the head of the cock while jacking
Water sports (internal / swallowing piss)	yes	2
Wax (hot, dripping)	yes	2
Wearing symbolic jewelry	no	1
Whipping	yes	3
Wooden paddles	yes	3
Wrestling	no	3	I'm a terrible wrestler and would end up being the bitch every time. Which I would enjoy greatly after losing while trying not to lose.

Other: Pain and sex combination training has not been done in a very long time, my threshold has dropped, and I no longer get an erection from certain pain play as a result. I am interested in being "edged" and kept hard during the various experiences involving gradual build up of pain levels for retraining.