**The family has brought people into such a situation that the person does not feel comfortable without having to pay attention to the family.** **Whatever the bitterness was between the husband and wife some years ago, the idea of divorce was not the last option, but now the debate begins with the first thought of a divorce. Those couples who could face any challenge together, are now challenging for each other.** ![Couples Fighting Over Small Issues](http://www.saltlakemaritalandfamilytherapy.com/files/images/blog/couples%20fight.jpg)[Source: Salt Lake Marital & Family Therapy](http://www.saltlakemaritalandfamilytherapy.com/files/images/blog/couples%20fight.jpg) The absence of love in life is continuously deepening. That's because the **person can have knowledge of himself only; for others, there is just guess.** Consciousness for themselves and compassionate for the other is called a pleasant marriage for a husband and wife. Anyone who is not loving is not able to find God. Love is the beginning and the divine is its transition, but you do not get love automatically. It has to be earned. Love means - enjoying the presence of another. Mutual respect is the basis of it. At the top of the worldly desires is - the desire for respect. Due to the lack of respect, the marriages end. **The couple can respect each other only if they keep a sense of mutual equality.** ![New Love TImes: Respect](http://i1.wp.com/www.newlovetimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/respect1-2.jpg?resize=720%2C432)[Source: New Love Times](http://i1.wp.com/www.newlovetimes.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/respect1-2.jpg?resize=720%2C432) Husband-wife should increase friendship. Love is possible only to a limited people, while friendship can be from unlimited. People, who have a bigger friend circle, can become friends easily in the family also. There is someone who takes care of you, this sense of resilience is important in life. Therefore, husband and wife should pay attention to each other. If both of you are able to give attention to each other at times when needed, then the intensity of giving love is deepened. If your intellectual about the relationship nature and principles is extraordinary then you can also spend your life with a partner of opposite nature. That's because **your vision would become "what's right" rather than "who's right".** Developing your art and consciousness is only in keeping with your partner. Purification of the emotions and the development of consciousness is the source of spirituality. Therefore, in ancient times, saints and sages used to take help from their wives in religious work too. **If your relationship is romantic then in the last moments, the presence of a spouse will leave your soul in a more fulfilling state.** ![Separator](https://steemit-production-imageproxy-upload.s3.amazonaws.com/DQmb9i2KiKpKHoj63jj482Z2HpRPSbx1UyAPXrRGYxXzhEj) **So, did you like this post? Would you like to read more posts daily in this category? Then follow me and give some support. I will be posting daily in this energy series.** **Energy Series: The Daily Dose of Intellect** [![](https://steemitimages.com/50x60/http://steemitboard.com/@cryptogecko/commented.png)](http://steemitboard.com/board.html?user=cryptogecko) [![](https://steemitimages.com/60x70/http://steemitboard.com/@cryptogecko/votes.png)](http://steemitboard.com/board.html?user=cryptogecko) [![](https://steemitimages.com/70x80/http://steemitboard.com/@cryptogecko/posts.png)](http://steemitboard.com/board.html?user=cryptogecko) [![](https://steemitimages.com/100x80/http://steemitboard.com/@cryptogecko/level.png)](http://steemitboard.com/board.html?user=cryptogecko) [![](https://steemitimages.com/70x80/http://steemitboard.com/@cryptogecko/comments.png)](http://steemitboard.com/board.html?user=cryptogecko) [![](https://steemitimages.com/60x70/http://steemitboard.com/@cryptogecko/voted.png)](http://steemitboard.com/board.html?user=cryptogecko) [![](https://steemitimages.com/50x60/http://steemitboard.com/@cryptogecko/payout.png)](http://steemitboard.com/board.html?user=cryptogecko)