Material things do not necessarily bring you happiness. That is a fact of life. It is a hard fact to understand sometimes, especially in a society that tries very hard to teach you otherwise.

It is very common to get into a mode where you think, "If only I had this or that, my life would be perfect and I would be happy." You REALLY want something: a new TV, a new car, a special pair of shoes, whatever it may be. Then you buy it and you LOVE having it for a few days. But over time you get bored of it and it wears out. You can see this pattern repeated constantly in your own life. For example, your parents and grandparents likely spent thousands and thousands of dollars on toys for you as you were growing up: Dump trucks and Barbie dolls and video games and electric cars and on and on and on. All of those toys got boring or broken or outgrown eventually. They brought happiness for a moment or a week, but over time they became worthless and your desire turned to a new object. This pattern constantly make people ask this question: If material things bring just a temporary and short term happiness, then what does that mean? It might mean that you have to buy material objects to one day sustain the temporary and short term high of getting something new. The problem is, that begins to sound a lot like a drug habit. This train of thinking can get you into some very deep areas. Things like:

-What is happiness?

-What does it mean to be happy?

-What do I want to do in my life?

-Does life have meaning?

There is a difference between material happiness, which implies having all the basic comforts necessary to live life, and spiritual happiness, which implies something else altogether.No matter how much money you make, you always want more. So if you make $25,000 you believe that if you just made $50,000 you would be happy. But then you begin to make $50,000. At that point you believe that if you just made $100,000 you would be happy, and so on through life. This pattern is true whether you make $25,000 or $10,000,000 a year, because as you earn more money you acquire more expensive tastes. It seems to me that you might as well learn to be happy on $25,000 a year, figure out an easy way to earn it and then have the rest of your time free to do what you want.This sort of philosophy implies that you can find something other than material happiness to give meaning to your life.The thing about "wealth" is that there is more than one way to measure it. Traditionally it is measured in dollars, but there are many other scales. You can be "rich" in ways that have nothing to do with money. You can be RICH:

-Rich in friends-- A person who cultivates friendships and who is a joy to be around can have hundreds of good friends and can be rich beyond the wildest dreams of others.

-Rich in health-- A person who spends time eating right, exercising and relaxing from stress can be extremely healthy, and this health can be far more valuable than any amount of money.

-Rich in strength-- A person who works out with weights every day, runs, swims, etc. can be rich in strength and will have an attractive body.

-Rich in family-- A person who devotes time to his or her spouse and children will have a strong and happy family that is rewarding throughout life.

-Rich in knowledge-- A person who reads and studies will become rich in knowledge.

-Rich in skill-- A person who practices anything daily (a skill, a sport, prayer, whatever) will become excellent in that skill area. Excellence has its own rewards.

-Rich in character-- A person who works hard at being honest and truthful in all situations will become rich in character and will be trusted by everyone.

One funny thing about all of these different areas is that none of them are taxed. You are taxed on the money you earn, and that is it. There is no knowledge tax, for example. You can learn throughout life and acquire a huge "bank account" of knowledge. No one can steal it or diminish it in any way. knowledge is the one thing you can take with you anywhere you go in life. All of these alternative types of wealth are different from financial wealth, and yet all of them can be equally rewarding in their own ways. The point is that the act of buying things by itself, despite what television tells you, may not be what will bring you maximum happiness in life. Things like good friends, a loving spouse, well raised children, a home built on love, a good relationship with Others, a clear conscience, a worthy goal and a job you truly enjoy bring you contentment that lasts and has meaning. These things are often very hard for some teenagers to understand, but as you mature they become more important.As you look at the world around you and come to understand what is important to you, keep these things in mind. Think about what it is that you enjoy and what makes you truly happy. See what you find. In thinking about it constantly, you might be surprised by what you discover. Money is incredibly important you need it to survive. But it is not the ONLY thing you need, and money itself will not bring ever lasting happiness to you in life.