![guy-back-view-sea.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmPbe82BnKNfrRFq4DZcocfVfGVcpVkPgMGwy57GdUxnK6/guy-back-view-sea.jpg) Source As we travel along each of our paths, many of us experiences different things that made us to decide firmly on what to do. Each of us has its own personal interests in life, may it be good or bad it totally depends on individuals on how they handle life's circumstances. Some of us may differ in attitude and some may not, but there may be similarities towards the other. Struggling with many things plays a big part in our lives. * ![Untitled.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmf6cfByaY42JxFPPHR9Ed8dyY8BFAyUPTm93zUKJh5mE9/Untitled.jpg) Source We can all say that this might be happening for a reason, but is it worth to struggle for? Does this make me stronger enough to face another challenge after this? Am I the only one who experiences this thing? These might be the questions that always stand and repeats in our minds when we face different situations. Not just this, but others also thinks, I will quit!, This life is now worthless!, I cannot stand this anymore!, I want to be drunk to forget everything! Is this really the answer to everything we always fought for? Is that problem or trial worth of quitting? Come to think of this, as we were just created many of us wants to win the race, many of them failed and only one who succeeded, and you did it. Do you have an idea or knowledge to win that race? Have you gone to any trainings and schools to become a success? No, you did it without bearing anything, you did it by yourself. How much more that you have the knowledge to face every problem, the strength to carry every load you have. It is really worth to experience reality for us to grow from time to time. ![goal-setting.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmVuoGXvjonGBQXNVxHn9y8peXZyZRMv1QRRy2rNi49Xam/goal-setting.jpg) Source I know everyone of us fights every day for so many reasons. Others may want to live longer, another may want to spend their life with happiness and leisure, some want to travel always, some want to marry and build a good foundation of their lives and have family and kids. You must fight always and stand boldly for your reasons. Do not drown yourself of many negatives they will say or might be a big problem that you will encounter. All those things are passing and will be forgotten once we will leave this world, but since we are still here, we must fight and continue this journey. ![standbold.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmf2HyV8ek2f3f84og1CV8EsovRnSWH7NcnccjiFyUcG27/standbold.jpg) Source Aim for your goal and do not forget to give time to yourself, the best thing to do is to reward yourself once you accomplish something. Give yourself a treat once in a while, it will help you to gain strength and continue doing the things you did. We cannot be the best among the others, but least we can do is to show them who and what we are, not the weak side, but the streets, we have in spite of the things we face that they know nothing about. We are not here to pleased them, we don't wake up every morning for them, but we always stand every morning, continue this journey for our future plans and merely for ourselves. We cannot be a rubberband to become a person they want us to be, it is a hypocrite, be about who you are. Once you gainfully those strengths you can now recover everything what you lost and regain everything that was being taken by you. Smile to them and don't hesitate to help others, since they need it. Remember to follow your path without hesitations, even if all of them pulls you back, face everything and chin up. You are not alone, you will always be guided and you will surely reach what you are destined for.