Dear single ladies, ![women-2630140_1280.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmdkh1Rv3kpnBxCenQHHmoL7iWzpQG2b9CrZEGM7XfYaBG/women-2630140_1280.jpg) [SOURCE](https://pixabay.com/en/women-sad-alone-woman-depression-2630140/)

The poorest man you can marry is not the one who lacks money, but the one who lacks character. when you make yourself available without invitation, insult, heartbreak, cheating on your face are inevitable. ( Desperation will reduce your worth), You don't need a man to complete you, just discover the woman in you, the man will have no option than to look for you. Always remember that Promises isn't enough, you may eventually get sick of waiting. When a man is ready he will avoid wasting your time. My dear beautiful creature, Your flaws, weakness, mistakes, are perfect for the heart that is meant to love you, he will never judge you by your past. If a man haven't introduce you to his "HEART" every other introduction is pretence. Love is the tenant of the heart. A relationship that will give birth to marriage; doesn't give headache. Don't hurt yourself when the wrong person have left at the right time. - Focus on your purpose. - Focus on becoming financially secure.. - Focus on connecting spiritually... - Focus on things that really count...

AVOID DATING ERRORS....

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There is no relationship that was destined to last. It last long because two people made a choice to keep it. We must realize that the most desired gift of LOVE is not SEX, ROMANCE, DIAMOND, or MONEY; it is focused ATTENTION..... Don't marry the person you think you can live with; marry only the individual you think you can't live without. Because Love is like a river, it doesn't struggle to flow, if you are finding it difficult to understand each other or reason together, there is no need to continue. Don't start what you can't finish, believing that your love for each other will grow, without CARE, COMMUNICATION, and ATTENTION. it will make Your relationship to remain stagnant.

WHEN FEELINGS ARE NOT REAL; EXCUSES ARE INEVITABLE.

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Check the kind of excuses you receive in your relationship. If there is no "TIME" in a relationship, there won't be "ATTENTION" in marriage. Watch those who express their feelings in ROMANCE, and SEX but forgets responsibility. Anybody can say "I LOVE YOU" but the question is; WHY DO YOU LOVE ME? Not every feelings is for real. So don't be carried away by feelings. Don't pretend to express FEELINGS that are not real. Remember Feelings without good INTENTION becomes a CHILD'S PLAY. Your feelings isn't enough to make a choice. If you don't face reality, you make a wrong choice.. No one has the right to make choice for you, including your parents. Personalize your choice and feelings. Because When you correct every error, you make way for testimony.

Don't let love blind you... Choose wisely and be led by the holy spirit. I am your relationship adviser @luckyspark ORLU FIRST SON

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