![IMG-20180220-WA0003.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmTfTjy8mDPJNWmtxfVzfmtVssifQxF8tU9TdUgxzeevUB/IMG-20180220-WA0003.jpg) ___ ### If you're one of those guys that struggle to grasp the concept of interacting with a hottie that's caught your eye, *FEAR NO MORE MY FRIEND!* #### Meet Soren. A 8 year young expert in the field that's already *KNOCKING IT OUT THE PARK!* He has some hot tips to get you going and help you on your journey towards love 😉 ![20180220_184738.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmVJKb1gPFugMRgKbxm2N5z2Wa2pkEtgjX91iZwmYakcW3/20180220_184738.jpg) #### Let's start with the picture above. In his own words... with some 'auto corrected' stuff 😁 > ### From Paul > ### Just kidding ___ >### For Sienna > ### It's from Soren ___ #### This clever little move has two main components to it. ### 1) Eliminate the competition: #### On face value it might sound simpler than it is. What he's done here is to eliminate the competition in a very subtle manner. This is *THE KEY.* You can't go out there and lambaste your *competition*. You won't be scoring any brownie (well, in his case chocolate brownie) points by badmouthing another party that is showing interest towards a particular lady. In the little intro section, *From Paul, just kidding* he has managed to highlight the fact that he's the one who is writing the letter *AKA* putting in the effort and not Paul. ### 2) Make a light hearted joke: #### Here we'll be referring to the same section where Soren joked about the letter being from Paul. *BOOM!* Double whammy. A little light hearted joke to ease the mood. This kids got some skills! ![20180220_184805.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmfGf2xP9WcpmWLPiAZ2voMAmyEUqPc8EuRbvGe1z6spJp/20180220_184805.jpg) #### Next, let's look at the writing. You will notice lots of words that have been scratched out. This is a clear indication that lots of thought and effort went into it. At his age, leaving it like that with the scratched out words is ok. When you're a little older though, it's recommended that you re-write it. The *KEY FACTOR* here is putting thought and effort into what you're writing. Even if you're having a chat online put some thought into your questions and answers. Make it meaningful and most of all, be *HONEST!* > ### You are the best girl I've ever met... #### Above is a perfect example of being honest. I know this because he's been talking about Sienna for quite some time 😊 ![20180220_184914.jpg](https://steemitimages.com/DQmcTDhRXMHa48urWkJ8vCi7vFbecew7vbU9zY776Lj2R1E/20180220_184914.jpg) #### Last but not least, we'll look at the picture he drew. It's colourful, there are smiles all round and of course, hearts. #### Ladies like it when you're being colourful... unless it's a Gothic honey you have your eye on. Then opt for things like black roses, dark pictures and that kinda thing. Alternatively, keep it colourful yet light. Oh, did you notice the little heart he drew in her chest? I'm sure most of the ladies have :) Attention to detail my friend, attention to detail. ### As they say "The proof is in the pudding." #### Well, the proof has displayed itself. Since Soren gave the letter to Sienna she has constantly been asking if they can have a playdate 😎 #### So there you go my single friends. Get out there, be a little bold and if you'd like, you can always ask Soren for some more tips in the comments section. Perhaps he can advise 😉 ___ ## Cheers! ![pic 2.gif](https://steemitimages.com/DQmY3zMG8Fp97dkT63CGoQatRVHwPHmhbpZDdioUxhshWGb/pic%202.gif) [![signature](http://i.imgur.com/EUokjJF.png)](https://steemit.com/created/teamsouthafrica) Team South Africa banner designed by @bearone