Hi, Steemians! Misery builds up contempt, and resentment leads to suffering. A society built on misery, contempt, and resentment is doomed to diminish from the pages of history. In today’s article, I want to talk about a certain type of mentality that rejects logical assessment as a means to cower behind shame, guilt, and suffering simply to rebel against the idea of society and its hierarchical structure. After all, any hierarchical structure requires its members to compete in difficult circumstances and not everyone is prepared for a challenge such as that. ![image2.jpg](https://files.steempeak.com/file/steempeak/chbartist/xkpX8eUC-image2.jpg) img src

It all started when you were a little child, walking paisley down the street and playing with your other friends from the neighborhood. The world offered you a truth; that in order to prevail and achieve anything of value in this world, you have to work hard. You have to practice your competence and strength on a daily basis. You have to encourage yourself to push out of your comfort zone and overcome new challenges or obstacles. Some of us refused that truth. And for that, our lives are in shambles, with no way of escaping the darkness that is engulfing our moments. ![image3.png](https://files.steempeak.com/file/steempeak/chbartist/b45sPVn7-image3.png) img src

There is a part in T.S. Eliot’s play called the Cocktail Party, in which one of the characters is explaining her mental process to a psychiatrist. The woman hopes that what is wrong in her life is her own fault. The psychiatrist asks why, and the woman simply claims, ‘That way, I have a chance of making it right.’ When things are wrong in your life, you can either blame everyone else, including but not restricted to; the world, your family, your society, your religion, the cruel hierarchy, etc. Or you can take responsibility for your own thoughts, words, and actions. You could accept the truth that you are where you are as a direct result of your choices. ![image1.png](https://files.steempeak.com/file/steempeak/chbartist/nZPzv6Qv-image1.png) img src

Now, I know what you may think; a lot of people undergo tragedy in their lives and most of the times, it is not even their fault. I can understand that. Hell, I can sympathize with it. But for the majority of us, at least in some point of our lives, we have made mistakes and the blame for the misery of today solely rests on our shoulders. No one is to blame for your life and your decisions. Make better decisions and escape the hell that you are currently living in! A BIG HUG!! @chbartist ##### Please, don't forget! Vote for @chbartist for Witness And Together Let's Continue to Build This Amazing Community with a Positive High Mindset - Click on the link below and confirm your vote. ![wit7.jpg](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmf3johE4rwVZegZeLZe6MTsgPNRQHL9nh4b7Ha9PWGpHw/wit7.jpg) img src

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