If you love yourself, you love it with jealousy, with prohibitions, with cruelty, if you love it that way and it hurts, do not fool yourself anymore, it's simple, it's not love. If you are going through such a moment, I invite you to read this blog.

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It is normal that we are forced to make certain decisions, especially when we go through these types of situations and we wonder if we should continue with that relationship, or surrender or follow your path. ![images.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmP49b3xMBxj7pPtWZ5ZwFKF6RhUVFmWTERgsJbR2nk8KA/images.png)

It is very valid to chase that you love, couples, relationships and love, but if what you are after you move you are wasting time that anyone can notice. Sometimes the best change is to make the decision to stop, not to follow the same path and leave; but that decision can be the most difficult, because they shared many moments together and despite everything you still want and without realizing that we are resisting what we have to do, not wanting to admit that; We lost time, that things are not going to improve or change. but still doubts if you continue or not?

He watches over you from your friends and cousins, maybe he will not let you dress as you want or he will not let you go out alone; but he does leave without warning and the phone does not answer you if you call him. Maybe when he is with you he shows you that he loves you but the rest of the time? you are the one who tries to improve things, you try to talk to him but still he is not interested in talking about that topic. There comes a time when you can not take it anymore and then when we make this decision?

When we have already given the best of ourselves, always respecting our loyalty, when we have used all the necessary resources without opting for the result we wanted, when you feel that it has already been enough fight and you should look for a well-being https://steemitimages.com/DQmbsDSXnjYTBs6dpDtR1RKL2RxyAhZ62wZ62nPtkexRbRv/Green-fancy-line-hi-380x152.png

When you review the defeats, the heartbreak and the betrayals, its consequences are at least a year. open your eyes even if it is hard the attitude of a good man is not to control, it is not to forbid or much to treat badly; Quierote, valorate and have dignity, learn to say goodbye