![STEEEM.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmWAX1PEZHuM4VsunutkSgUfN8UKWCQegqFGEQRcMKJVkk/STEEEM.png) ### Why do people complain? --- Of course, not to torture others with their negativity. They are unhappy, they are against the system, against ***Steemit***. We all know the problems on ***Steemit***, but complaining isn’t the right thing to do. If you are a minnow, think twice before accusing the whales or dolphins. > Why you're not upvoting my post, you can see it is qualitative? > Why are you upvoting your comments? > Why you're not supporting minnows? > Why are you selling your upvotes? Few months ago I was the one who has complained of a lot of things, saying that whales are controlling everything on ***Steemit***. But guess what? ### So it must be! Put yourself in the place of a whale. You are a whale. You invested your own money in Steem. Isn't clear you want to benefit following your act? Isn't clear you risked your own money investing in ***Steem*** and in the same time helping the whole platform to survive? ### "When you are complaining, you're a crap magnet!" ~ T. Harv Eker --- Nothing will change if you will complain, and if you do this, not only you won’t feel better, but you’ll also make others feel badly. Do you know what happens to your brain when you have a negative way of thinking? In your brain there is a collection of synapses separated by an empty space. Every time a thought crosses your mind, synapses bond. Your brain physically changes in order to transmit an idea, so there is a big chance for a thought to repeat itself. Imagine what happens if you’re always complaining. ![](https://steemitimages.com/DQmYytDL2UsSV2rBup66m7VnBPWrP71wMfZwZEJmihjgm4F/image.png)[source](http://debuglies.com/2017/10/31/reports-brain-cells-are-made-of-less-polyunsaturated-fatty-acids-than-other-major-organs-the-body/) If you’re a negative person, you won’t just have negative thoughts when you have a problem, but you will also have them when you’re walking peacefully in the park. This is why it’s so important to stop complaining and start being more optimistic. Tell me if you know something better than ***Steemit***. I am here to contradict you. The thing is, you’re not only doing harm to yourself, but you’re hurting affecting others too. When you listen to someone who’s complaining, your brain tries to “reconstruct” what that person is feeling, and this is how bad thoughts can install in your mind. The good news is that your brain can be remodeled, so it’s not the end of the world if you’re used to negative thinking. You can always exercise your way of thinking and bring positive thoughts into your brain and on ***Steemit***. Start taking care of your brain, your body, yourself and others and stop complaining. ***Steemit*** is simply beautiful if you allow yourself to see it. ### And this is just the beginning... ![U5dtjrXYyNbAczMeScAsy84ErPFaojo_1680x8400.png](https://steemitimages.com/DQmUPvFMKhe3zgzDvJg5nxTLWAD38ntVQmvdMH3A8WhuvEH/U5dtjrXYyNbAczMeScAsy84ErPFaojo_1680x8400.png) ##### -to be continued-