Times are changing and parents, especially fathers, have a duty to raise their boys differently and better. With respect to the opposite sex, a modern father should teach his boys the following:

1. That men don’t really need to beg for sex or pay for it. The empirical fact is that women enjoy and want sex more than men do, but sociology from inception bred men unto the hunting, spending, and unto working the physical part of a thing they enjoy much less. Tell your boys the truth, that the have been scammed for too long. There is need to stop the next generation from becoming shameless goats.

2. That as a growing African man, he has a lot of work to do: the West can be fixated on sex because they can afford to. They have no headache with NEPA, bad roads, kleptocracy, and heat. We are still dying of malaria and typhoid because—bad water and a dirty environment. Imbue your son with the urgency of his work in the world and how sex should be the least of his priorities. He will have it when he will have it.

3. That raping a woman is insane, foolish, and totally useless. A man’s sexual organ was created in such a way that, to have an orgasm and cool off, nobody needs to find out what works for him. In fact, if he laughs too hard he risks having an orgasm, thus his task in sex is how to prevent or prolong orgasm not how to reach it. Soap, water, just anything and he’s fine. So rape becomes simply idiotic.

4. Men do not derive their dignity from their gender. Cooking, washing, and cleaning have nothing to do with how you are respected in society. Raise your sons to be developed all-round and to be domestically self-reliant.

5. To have the girl of his heart, your son doesn’t really need a lot of money and fantastic pick-up lines. Let him develop and succeed in a career, tend his body to look smart and healthy, build a quality character—and he has absolutely no need chasing women all over the place. Of course being a sweet-talker is easier and may seem to work faster. But being successful, intelligent, smart-looking and powerful in his immediate space is such a head-turner that saves him a lot of nonsense, allowing him to enjoy a certain kind of pride that is entirely his own.

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