Life Lessons Learned

in hive-147599 •  4 days ago 

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What's a tough situation you've been through, and what did you learn from it?

As far as I can remember, I have always been an obedient child to my parents. I would do things even before they said anything but there was an incident in my life that taught me as well as my parents a lesson that we can never forget.

When I was in 11th standard, I joined a new college. Some of my friends were with me, we were three friends but we wanted to maintain unity with our entire class, and not just be busy with each other and ignore the rest of the class. Unfortunately, with this thought we became friends with a group of class who were backbenchers. My friends and I were neither toppers nor completely backbenchers. We always adapted to the environment we met.

That group include 5 members and 3 were us. We were 8 people that become famous within month in the front of our teachers that they speak all time in the class and if some strict teacher scold us then we sleep all the time instead of listening to teacher. One day it was very awkward situation I can't explain I don't know who complain about us but there was chemistry class that was combine with another class because our teacher was absent and some other teacher is also going to manage our class. 8 of us decide to bunk because it was 2 classes together too many kids nobody going to recognise either we are there or not. That 5 memeber convince us to bunk class that we never did before they said let's have some "memories" and we do every blunder in the name of "memory".

When we bunk class I don't know whom from our class complain about our bunk lecture and that unknown teacher report it to vice principal in the very next lecture we are suppose to be in her office we were attending biology class and obviously 8 of students out of 20 are half of the class is being called in the office even teacher was astonished she asked us "what did you guys do now?" Without speaking word we went to the office in line. We went there we are were wearing mask because of Covid era principal ask us to remove our masks. When we remove she said you all are looking mature and respectful students none of you is suppose to involve in activities like this before I don't know what's so big in it everyone bunks but nobody knows but we were traped and everyone know that we bunk so she give us 1 hour lecture about not doing these things again and when we went out three of us suppose to be behind them and they were chilling like nothing happen when they out from the door of office someone from them said "Ahh nobody care about their so cold lectures 🤣". Some other teacher inside office listen what she said and then she follow us till we reach our class room she tell principal that they were dancing, chilling like nothing happen and they were saying rubbish about staff. After 10 minutes we reach class vice principal came their herself. 🥴

She said all of you come to my office and pick your "Struck off letters" everyone was shocked in class. She was printing letters of our name when we re arrive in office.

We apologize that group lie to hide the truth they said that somebody from our group start crying and we does this to chill her. But they didn't listen and struck off all of us from the college that means we have to readmission our self to rejoin the college.

What's a piece of advice you'd give to your younger self?

I would like to advice myself that don't be childish. Don't make friends who aren't your type you are suppose to be in problem with those who didn't match your vibes.

Friends are essential part of everyone life but good friends are your biggest support and bad friends are the most evil thing you ever have I your life.

What's the most important lesson you've learned and how has the lesson changed you?

Never hurt your loving ones for your temporary happiness moreover temporary fun leads you to never ending problems. This stage of my life tough me that don't break your rules to enjoy your life. Your life need discipline so set yourself within boundaries and do what you are suppose to be as a leader.

What mistake taught you the most and what's the best lesson you've ever gotten?

This mistake I tell you above taught me the most. I learn alot I can't explain how much pain I have been suffering while I get through this. I wasn't able to tell my parents that college throw me out because of some

discipline issue. I hold all the grudges and tell my mother about it and that might be first time of my life I cried in the front of my mother I am always suppose to be strong nature. I was hurt because I thought that I hurt my parents but my parents support me as much as they can. They support me alot in this breakdown I am always grateful for having them in my life. They readmission me in the same college because in pakistan intermediate suppose to be in the same college.

This stage teach me that our parents are the biggest support of us without them we are nothing.

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Three friends @iqrabatool34 @faran-nabeel @isha-rehman

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