Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 91: Not what you think.

in hive-147599 •  5 days ago 

Hello Everyone.

Am @meehu.
From Pakistan🇵🇰.

beautiful-6126170_1280.jpgPixabay

“What do you understand by being "Misunderstood"?.”

In my opinion, the meaning of "Misunderstood" is to judge something without knowing the whole story and create a world of your own thoughts and then not consider it necessary to clear it with anyone and then make this world your reality.And this is not a disease, these people create it of their own free will, so as far as I know, I have seen this relationship break down, and when you give this feeling a place in your heart, then there is no place for anyone else in your life. You start creating thoughts on your own, and later those same thoughts become like poison and destroy you.I'm not saying that this is an impossible feeling, but rather that it is a feeling that you can control if you want to, so talk about it and get out of your own world.

Bxod1Y9Z4SQvHpXs1WzBaGwb98frHxzWanRUCoG67GmFPiWjCpc4wftNLuYNuCFaFGDawxV5qjqd7g8eC8KwMDz4yuwLWQSBWjLqE53bqM...fAn4hhBC5aZMTbGJymwJir5bFnnMX2bxWdAcznHWCVZ5Gx5cg4wa3UbSjFjkcyZZKLy1ZJhruuyNCJXJVCV13rRpSRbEeWVm5wugBXz1tD4fLXTqMND4VZ6xW.jpeg

“Have you found yourself in such a situation, if yes, kindly share with us your experience..”

This has not happened to me only, this has happened to many people that they are not given the opportunity to clear and the person in front of you creates their own world. They have every question and answer for every question and you feel so helpless that you do not get the opportunity to answer, which is why you give up on the relationship because I know that this happens to everyone, so it has to happen to me too.

finger-3639605_1280.jpgPixabay

I remember that last month my class mate who is no longer my class mate but my ex glass mate texted me and asked me if I was single and started talking to me and after a few days he told me that he was very attracted to me and I didn't understand what he was saying but I didn't have anything in my heart so I didn't say anything to him but after a few days we have reunion with classmates i wanted to go to our place but due to some commitments I couldn't go there when I told him that I didn't go there today he started acting very strangely towards me ...he got angry he felt that if I go to reunion or go then I will start an affair with someone else which made me feel very helpless while I was not in any relationship with him either but he was in her own world which I found quite strange and I looked at him and I wanted to leave her in that moment and I did so because he had her own world which I couldn't shake.

Bxod1Y9Z4SQvHpXs1WzBaGwb98frHxzWanRUCoG67GmFPiWjCpc4wftNLuYNuCFaFGDawxV5qjqd7g8eC8KwMDz4yuwLWQSBWjLqE53bqM...fAn4hhBC5aZMTbGJymwJir5bFnnMX2bxWdAcznHWCVZ5Gx5cg4wa3UbSjFjkcyZZKLy1ZJhruuyNCJXJVCV13rRpSRbEeWVm5wugBXz1tD4fLXTqMND4VZ6xW.jpeg

pair-3879443_1280.jpgPixabay

“How did you feel and how did you handle the misconception?.”

At that time, if I were to say that my blood was boiling with anger, it would not be wrong at all. My blood was really boiling with anger and my heart was yearning to get up and punch him in the face, which would make his nose broke and then he would look around and call for help. But it was just a dream. I couldn't do anything like that because I knew that it was a violence But I just tolerated things. After that, I was asked wanted to listen to me? He told me clearly that he didn't want to listen to me. , I didn't even know how to react.Because some people don't want to listen to you. The first thing is that we weren't even close. He started controlling me right away. I can't prefer that I move forward with him. When I saw that someone tried to do it in the beginning of the relationship, I did everything I wanted and that's why I end it. I told him that we shouldn't talk again.

Bxod1Y9Z4SQvHpXs1WzBaGwb98frHxzWanRUCoG67GmFPiWjCpc4wftNLuYNuCFaFGDawxV5qjqd7g8eC8KwMDz4yuwLWQSBWjLqE53bqM...fAn4hhBC5aZMTbGJymwJir5bFnnMX2bxWdAcznHWCVZ5Gx5cg4wa3UbSjFjkcyZZKLy1ZJhruuyNCJXJVCV13rRpSRbEeWVm5wugBXz1tD4fLXTqMND4VZ6xW.jpeg

divorce-6930723_1280.jpgPixabay

“Is there any advice you would love to give to your readers so they don't find themselves in your shoes..”

I will just say that sometimes when you make room for misunderstanding in your life or in your relationship, and if you do that, many things that were once misunderstood will come , like hate ,cheating etc. All of this, I always say that you should have a very good relationship with each other.As it is always said that a coin has two sides, meaning that if my side of the story is different, the story of other person will also be of some other kind. If you have relationship then you should also listen to the other person, his thoughts, his feelings, his sure of stories before creating a separate world about the other person.But sometimes things are not what they seem and your circumstances quickly get disturbed and then if you can't manage your life and your relationship in this way. So you should always listen to the stories of others before it's too late for you to say something.

Bxod1Y9Z4SQvHpXs1WzBaGwb98frHxzWanRUCoG67GmFPiWjCpc4wftNLuYNuCFaFGDawxV5qjqd7g8eC8KwMDz4yuwLWQSBWjLqE53bqM...fAn4hhBC5aZMTbGJymwJir5bFnnMX2bxWdAcznHWCVZ5Gx5cg4wa3UbSjFjkcyZZKLy1ZJhruuyNCJXJVCV13rRpSRbEeWVm5wugBXz1tD4fLXTqMND4VZ6xW.jpeg

Thanks for visiting my post.

I like to invite.
@zoyabhatti06.
@rumaisha.
@vishwara.

Truly.

@meehu.

Authors get paid when people like you upvote their post.
If you enjoyed what you read here, create your account today and start earning FREE STEEM!
Sort Order:  

Thank you for sharing quality content on Steemit
You have been supported by the team:


Curated by: @dove11

  ·  yesterday 

Thank you so much @dove11.
Blessings to you.