The Annoying Relative

Thank you my friend @sur-riti for the invitation to this amazing contest held in steem4nigeria by @bossj23

Invitation to my friends @ulfatulrahmah, @hafsasaadat90, @anthony002, @saniya9 let's join here.

Do you see it as a burden or an additional benefit when your relatives visit?

I can honestly say that a visit from relatives is not a burden for me, in fact I am very happy if they come to visit my place, especially if they tell me in advance, I will prepare my best dishes for them.

The additional benefit is that I can be closer to them, especially since I rarely visit my relatives except during Eid, and even then, if my guests are not there. Usually, on Eid al-Fitr, I just stay at home because many guests come. Are there relatives who you find very annoying so you don't like their presence in your house?

Is there a sibling that you find so annoying that you don't like their presence in your house?

There is, but I don't really bother and care, if they come I will also welcome them well in my house, let alone other people's families I will definitely welcome them in my house, my husband also doesn't mind it, he even told me to treat them the same as others too.

Regarding him being mean to us, it's better for us to just keep quiet as long as he doesn't bother us beyond the limit, after all.... other people can judge everything. But there must be a feeling of hurt because of his actions, I'm also human, but I won't retaliate if he doesn't hurt me physically, if only those words are enough, just consider it a passing wind.

like marbles, even though they are often used as toys, no one is able to chew them...so let's just relax and open ourselves up to be more sane😁.

Tell us about your experience with that sibling.

As I said earlier that I don't care about things that test my patience and want to live a peaceful life and be surrounded by good people, I also won't approach such people especially if there is nothing to talk about.

I will keep my distance so as not to become the subject of gossip because of it, usually people like that will look for loopholes to talk about us, so if we have never had anything to do with them then people will definitely know how to judge us with people who always try to badmouth us.

Is it possible for you to divide someone's household? Explain?

Dividing a household? I don't think I would do that, if you want to help, don't divide your household, you are lucky if you have a sibling who knows his place and knows how to return a favor even if we don't ask for it, at least after we help, don't stab him in the back.

I once gave a loan to someone who was in trouble. At that time, I didn't have much money, but I still had money from my husband. It wasn't much, but for me it was very valuable, but I didn't even say thank you for paying him back.

Until now the loan has never been paid, to be honest I am embarrassed to collect it, especially since he also knew my condition at that time, he also said that he would pay it back when he was rich later, whereas when I gave him the loan, I didn't have to wait until I was rich first.

That concludes my participation in this wonderful contest, thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read it.

Hormat saya
@suryati1